I met pat at Weichert university 17 years ago. We became immediate friends. My cousins live in Poughkeepsie so we met 3times while I was visiting my cousins. Once in Cold Springs for lunch. once in her home and once at the diner in wappingers we planned to get together numerous times, but Joe was not healthy and it never happened. My husband is battling melanoma and she helped me through the hardest time in my life. I have not told my husband of her death he so wanted to meet this beam of light that warmed our hearts. My deepest condolences to the family, may she rest in peace with Joe. Love and hugs Debbie Herman